Ladyofthelake
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I would lay money on the odds that the child who did this has been abused, and severely, herself. I also have to wonder if 11 is old enough to be watching a helpless baby. Infants are a lot more work and far more fragile than toddlers or preschoolers. When my own child was 11 I would let her work as a mother's helper with those age groups, or with a neighbor right across the street from us so I was home if she had any problems, but not with infants. No one with infants ever asked for a child that young to work, either. Sad, sad case. The family, should they be allowed to keep this child, will have to move away from that area if they want her to have any hope of growing up apart from this mess. I don't really know that they *should* get her back.