Are You In Favor Of Pre-Marital Sex?

[dariel2323]

I would like to know from the forumers here about this issue. Are you in favor of it? Or are you someone who waits till marriage?

 

[Muthoni]

If I knew what I know now when was younger I could have waited for my wedding night to have sex with my husband. Any man willing to wait for sex with their partner must love them very much. Most people are just out to get laid and move on. So my answer is no to premarital sex.

 

[LuckyGirl08]

I did not wait for marriage to have sex. I actually lost my V at the age of 13 after my parents split up. I wish I would have waited now because sex really ain't the same anymore now that I am married.

 

[helaofthenorns]

Pre-marital sex is a personal choice. If your husband or someone you love will only marry you for your virginity, then that person is not worth keeping. Likewise, if a person will judge you based on your virginity or lack of, then that person is stupid. Virginity is a personal choice. Don't let society dictate who is good or bad based on the presence of a hymen.

 

[DancingLady]

It should be saved until marriage. Sex binds two people in a very special, deep way. It is not something that should be treated casually. A lot of heartache could be saved if people waited until they knew this was the person they were going to spend the rest of their life with and first made that marriage commitment.

 

[stevesxs9]

I guess it all depends on a person's intentions ultimately. If one decides never to marry, they wouldn't be included but for people who intend to marry someday, I think they should wait but that's just my personal opinion.

 

[dariel2323]

Pre-marital sex is a personal choice. If your husband or someone you love will only marry you for your virginity, then that person is not worth keeping. Likewise, if a person will judge you based on your virginity or lack of, then that person is stupid. Virginity is a personal choice. Don't let society dictate who is good or bad based on the presence of a hymen.

Honestly I think similar to you. Virginity is something personal, each one must choose if we want to wait or not, regardless of the comments of others.


Something else is that we must be responsible for our actions always and be willing to pay for it. If so then it will be all good.

 

[bala]

Not many are in favor of losing it after marriage eh..?
I don't know if customs are to be blamed.We will be set aside if we were found to be involved in all this.Personally i too am of the opinion that waiting till marriage is a better option,because it is a special feeling and it binds people in a special way.I have had thoughts and instances where i could have lost it,but i kept it minimal and did not proceed further.

 

[Whitewolf2578]

Well my current Girlfriend made me wait for a year before we had sex and it was an easy year for me as I love her. I am not against it, but I am not for it. It is just a choice between two people as sex is a very intimate and special thing.

 

[headmaster]

I am fully in support of anything between two or more consenting adults, a basic right. As long as no laws are being broken, then anything goes.

 

[Riggy]

I'm completely for pre-marital sex. It just makes sense to me and I don't think it's right to have to wait till your wedding day. It may even force you into rushing into getting married if you only truly desire sex. Besides, sex is a very important part of a relationship and if it's absolutely terrible or if you don't know what your partner is like or does during sex then that's a bad thing. Who knows what they're into and you find out too late!

 

[Josie]

Absolutely! I'm so pro premarital sex, it's not even funny lol. I'm not one to see sex as the old biblical thing everyone makes it out to be though. Yes, have some self respect. Yes, don't throw yourself around to anyone who will take you and protect your safety and your heart. BUT all of this can be done while enjoying a full sex life before marriage. How do you know what you want for yourself until you've swum with the fishes!? I do NOT knock waiting.. I rather respect it. I just think people need to stop being so uppity about sex.

 

[Gelsemium]

I am in favor for pre-marital sex because getting married is something for life, so we need to try the whole package. Imagine we don't get along sexually, then what?

 

[bala]

As for me,it hasn't happened and we still are only in "love",but if it happens,then it shouldn't be a big issue as long as you are going to marry that girl only,lest it is an offence.I am fine with my opposite sex too if she too feels the same.Of course it does imply in the last statement,but just telling.

 

[kana_marie]

I know what my own personal preferences are, but I believe everyone else is entitled to decide for themselves. I can't decide what someone else shod believe in based on my religious convictions or my own personal mistakes and experiences. Except for my children. I have every right to dictate their behavior in regards to pre-marital sex.

 

[aparsons]

I honestly advocate pre-marital sex. I am not necessarily advising everyone to go out and have sex with anyone, I still believe it is something you should save for someone who you love and respect. Having said that, I believe that a sexual relationship with your partner, and a fulfilling one at that, is a essential part of a successful relationship. Even if people are completely incompatible before they make the decision, they may be incompatible with their sexual desires. I believe that couples should work through these issues to see if they can be resolved before they make the decision to become married.

 

[missbishi]

I'm all for it! After all, you wouldn't buy a car without taking it for a test drive would you?

It's such an important part of relationships so you really need to work out if you are compatible in that department before you decide to get married. Otherwise, you risk leading a life which is, in part, unfulfilled.

 

[dyanmarie25]

Honestly, I'm not in favor of pre-marital sex because it's against my views and beliefs. But I would never judge someone just because he/she is not a virgin anymore. It's his/her choice. It's his/her decision, and I totally respect it.